friends, relationships and secrets are so hard to handle.
if one could handle all 3,
they sure will be able to survive well in life,
esp in the society this days.
terrible.

friends do bicker but at times when it goes overboard,
one should think if they had said the right thing.
will what they say hurt others?
even if it's the truth, they should phrase it in another way.
sometimes being too straigtforwad is not good.
im one of them.

friends also dun like to be accused by another.
it's alwaes bad to jump into conlcusions.
friends also shldnt lie to one another.
a white lie maybe fine, but not too often.
你说了一个谎，你要说另一个谎去原上一个谎。
it's jus a cycle that never ends until u say the truth.

relationships with people is the hardest thing to maintain.
what can one say and what can one not say.
it is jus between the border.
BGF relationship is another matter.
be careful for who u fall in love with.
if he/ she is a forbidden person, better stay away,
or best remain as friends.
loving someone should be a sweet thing,
it shouldnt be a chore.
if it is, then that's not love.
but secretly loving someone, is somehow romantic too.

secrets sometimes can also become a powerful weapon in threathening others.
if one does that, he/ she is immoral.

on a lighter note,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY POHLOO!!!!



n im going to vietnam soon.
but with the storm there,
bless me i'll return in one piece. =)


recently, im going abit crazy.
ooh!

are secrets meant to be kept or shared?
if secrets are meant to be kept,
shouldnt we just keep it to ourselves.
nobody should be allowed to know, just only you.
wouldnt it be hard to just keep it to urself?

and if secrets are meant to be shared,
then they arent called secrets.
once you tell someone about it, the other woould be bound to "spread" the secret.
however, one needs to trust the other to tell them the secret.

i dun have my own personal secrets as some of my close friends have already known them.
so to me it's not my secret.
it's our secret.

i hate secrets.
why dont we jus share everything we noe?
haha.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MUMMY!!!!!
LOVE YOU!!!!

ooh!


Define friends. Are they a bunch of people who are always by your side? Always be there when you need help? Or are they just some people who made “friends” because of their own selfish needs? I sometimes wonder do people make friends because of a motive. Or is it because they are lonely? To me, it is hard to define friends.

I know of some people, who make friends because of school work. They get close to you just to make use of you. They ask you for their reports and discuss about work but they actually don’t care about you. They only care about their grades. Once they achieve their motive, they stay away from you. Are these people friends?

I know of some people, who make friends because they are lonely. When you are alone, you ask for their accompaniment. When they are lonely, you just leave them aside. Sometimes, I do admit, I am one of them.

I know of some people, who make friends because of their own needs. Once they get what they want, they just leave you. Or they even betray you once they don’t need you. When they need you, they are nice to you. When they don’t need you, they ignore you.

It is just scary to think of friends in such a way. But I think everyone do encounter people like that. And it gets disgusting when I think of such people around me. Sometimes even if you treat them as a friend, they don’t. They treat you like a puppet; play around with you.

Maybe friends do have to give and take. Friends sacrifice for you; you must also make sacrifices for them. When they listen to your troubles, you must also listen to theirs. Sometimes when you say you understand how your friend really feels, you actually don’t. I agree to this a lot. I am one of those who always say I understand, but in fact I don’t actually quite understand. Maybe it is hard for me. People like to have a listening ear, but when do you really become a listening ear to another? Maybe I am just not good in consoling people. So if I were to listen to their problems, I would be lost. How should I respond to them? I am not good at words.

Real friends are those who really stand by your side. Never grumble because of your little faults.

I must admit, I am not a good friend.